At 31

Many people thought that I would take leave off work today because of an occasion, but I went on with my morning shift... might as well lah... because I was going to spend the next half of the day occupied in a miniature seminar. It would be a waste because I couldn't spend my day on anything else.

The seminar was the second of four sessions by Church in their attempt to literally get singles attached biblically. And it was a grooming seminar.

No doubt the church was "The Well" as it is supposed to be, but honestly, the leaders upset me when they said it was the 'safest place' to find your life partner. I wouldn't blame as they didn't realise the hurt someone actually encountered in "The Well" itself.

I spent time listening to the obviously 'practical' things a guy would do for a girl. But I wouldn't blame them either for the sake of those guys who have not even dated, that they needed to go through this seminar. Hey it wasn't for me. It wasted my time and, generally, my whole Saturday when I was supposed to go out and enjoy with friends.

Cheesecake!

I left the whole seminar tired, got reminded of the hurt I suffered. But I know the church meant well. The leaders really meant to love us. That is why they are there, the reason for God to put them there.

I'm putting my trust in God wholeheartedly. Since this was initiated by Pastor Prince, someone who's heart is so filled and anointed, and since it was Pastor's heart for the members... I know that this new ministry is really God-directed.